DiscoverPlay Therapy Podcast: A Master-Class in Child-Centered Play Therapy346 | What to Do When the Child Dictates the Session and Controls the Dialogue
346 | What to Do When the Child Dictates the Session and Controls the Dialogue

346 | What to Do When the Child Dictates the Session and Controls the Dialogue

Update: 2025-10-16
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In this episode, I respond to a question from Lungile, a clinician in South Africa working with a 9-year-old girl who engages in highly directive role play—assigning roles, limiting dialogue, and scripting the session. When sessions become this structured, how do we remain faithful to the CCPT model, especially when reflective responses are limited?

I talk through what it looks like to stay within the model even when you feel like you're not "doing enough." I also share some practical ideas for subtly integrating reflective responses into role play scenarios—even when you're given a script—so that the child still experiences attunement and emotional presence. If you've ever wondered how to navigate sessions where you're limited in what you can say, this episode will give you clarity and reassurance.

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Common References:
Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley.
VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press.
Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge.
Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948
Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.

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346 | What to Do When the Child Dictates the Session and Controls the Dialogue

346 | What to Do When the Child Dictates the Session and Controls the Dialogue

Dr. Brenna Hicks